Chapter 401: The Answer
Translator: EndlessFantasy Translation Editor: EndlessFantasy Translation
However, when she saw Princess Ding’an, she could not help but talk to her about this problem that she had been struggling with for a long time. She had a strong feeling that Princess Ding’an would be able to give her an answer to what she wanted to know.
Jian Qingqing said without hesitation, “I will definitely separate with them.”
Liu Jiaojiao was surprised, but after thinking about it, she felt that it should be like this. Princess Ding!an was a very proud person, so how could she make herself suffer?
Jian Qingqing did not know if she should tell Liu Jiaojiao those thoughts. She was afraid that Liu Jiaojiao would not be able to accept it.
However, she felt that Liu Jiaojiao must have her own thoughts since she asked such a question. It was okay to share her thoughts, but it was up to her whether she would listen or not.
So, Jian Qingqing said, “There are generally three kinds of problems after marriage. The first is that the relationship with the mother-in-law is not good. The second is that the relationship between the husband and wife is not harmonious. The third is that the children are not obedient.”
“You must correct your attitude when it comes to your mother-in-law. If your mother-in-law is kind, you should treat her kindly. If she wants to set rules all day, then you don’t have to bear with it. Just reject her directly. You have your own life. No matter what others say, she will not bully you again when she sees that you are not easy to bully.”
“In the second case, there are many reasons for a husband and wife’s disharmony. It may be because you don’t have a good relationship with your mother-in-law, so he will naturally take his anger out on you. It may also be that he doesn’t care about you. No matter what, I will definitely divorce him.
After all, what’s the point of keeping someone who makes you unhappy? Additionally, I’m rich. It’s not like I can’t survive after the divorce. I think you have your own dowry and can live well alone. If your maternal family really mind, you can move out by yourself and regain your freedom. I think it’s very normal to divorce.”
“As for the third case, if the children are not educated well, then let them be. Everyone was an independent individual. It was their own choice to live and become what they wanted. Parents should learn to be more relaxed.”
“That’s why I feel that if you can’t control other people’s actions and thoughts, you should control yourself. Your own happiness is the most important.” Liu Jiaojiao looked at her in a daze and thought for a long time.
This was the first time someone had talked to her about such a matter, and Princess Dingan’s thoughts were different from others. If her mother knew about it, she would say that it was deviant. However, she had a sense of excitement, feeling that the problem that she had been struggling with had finally been answered. And it was different from others, she felt that it was a very correct answer.
Jian Qingqing did not expect Liu Jiaojiao to have such ‘avant-garde’ thoughts even though she looked so obedient. She was still very happy to see that Liu
Jiaojiao had listened to her. She suddenly felt that it was not difficult for her to change the thoughts of some women in this era. At least some people would accept it.
Liu Jiaojiao came back to her senses and thanked her, “Princess Ding’an, many thanks, I know what to do!”
Jian Qingqing patted her hand with a smile and said, “You’re welcome. I’m happy to help you.”
At this moment, Princess Anning ran back with an excited face and shouted,
“Qingqing! Sister Jiaojiao! My father has agreed! I can go out during
Mid-Autumn Festival! Ahh, I’m so happy!”
She excitedly rushed over to pick up Jian Qingqing and spun around in circles.
Jian Qingqing was dizzy from the spinning, but she was also very happy for Princess Anning.
“Alright, alright, put me down. Don’t worry, I’ll accompany you the entire time. You can go wherever you want..”